Relationship Coaching In Santa Monica & Online

Reignite Intimacy Before It’s Too Late

Coaching harnesses proven methods to end cycles of resentment and rebuild connection.

Could You Answer “Yes” to Any of These?

  • Do you feel emotionally distant even when you’re together?

  • Are old resentments slowly poisoning your bond?

  • Do you wish your partner understood your needs — and wanted to grow too?

If so, coaching can help!

I am passionate about sharing the tools and helping others have more fulfilling relationships. I am based in Santa Monica CA and see clients from all over the US.

book a 15 minute no pressure call to see if we are a good fit for each other. I provide relationship coaching in Santa Monica and around the globe via zoom.

A little about me:

After struggling with the idea that my own marriage was failing I set out to figure out what breaks down relationships and what helps build them back up. I’ve spent years researching what went wrong and more importantly collecting tools and resources to help other couples rekindle their own relationships. I live and coach in Santa Monica and thanks to the nature of of zoom now see clients all over the US.

I am FRCA Certified to provide relationship coaching and specialize in helping couples just like you break free of old patterns and learn how to build a healthy new relationship.

Testimonials:

  • My partner and I have been together for a little over 3 years and just had a son together. We were faced with challenges in our relationship that I did not think would be an issue. Thanks to Stepehen, we were given tools to create a strong foundation and navigate being new parents with one another. Thank you for helping us chart a course!!

    Kevin B.

  • My wife and I had the pleasure of working with Stephen. From his intuition and patience to his bedside manner and thoughtfulness, he was just wonderful. Any couple can benefit working with him.

    David C.

What is Relationship Coaching?

How can it help?

Relationship coaching is a specialized form of personal development that focuses on helping couples enhance their partnership through effective communication, mutual understanding, and shared goals. Unlike traditional therapy, which often delves into past traumas and emotional healing, relationship coaching is action-oriented and forward-looking. It's about empowering both partners to build a more fulfilling and harmonious life together by harnessing their collective strengths and addressing any challenges as a united team. I provide Relationship Coaching in Santa Monica but the magic of zoom allows me to help couples all over the US.

How is Relationship Coaching Different from Couples Therapy or Counseling?

While couples therapy and counseling often focus on resolving deep-seated emotional issues and conflicts, relationship coaching takes a more proactive and strategic approach. It is ideal for couples who may not necessarily be struggling but want to improve their relationship dynamics and ensure long-term success. Coaches work alongside couples to develop skills and strategies for better teamwork, goal setting, and conflict resolution, making it a practical option for those looking to enhance their relationship without the intensity of traditional therapy.

Is Relationship Coaching Right for Us?

If you and your partner are looking to strengthen your partnership, communicate more effectively, heal resentments, or simply want to grow closer together, relationship coaching could be a perfect fit. It's suitable for couples at any stage of their relationship who are committed to making progress and prefer a structured, goal-oriented approach to improving their dynamic. Whether you're navigating a specific challenge or just keen to maximize your relationship's potential, a relationship coach can provide you with the tools and support to achieve your goals as a team. You don’t have to live in Santa Monica, all sessions are Zoom so you and your partner don’t even have to be in the same place at the same time… Lunch break sessions are great!

How Coaching Works

  • Healing Resentments

    Phase I - Healing Resentments

    Learn how to talk about, process, and heal old resentments against each other. This is the foundational step that opens the door for reconnection. There is no way to be friends let alone feel safe and connected when either partner is holding on to resentments towards the other.

  • Tools for a better relationship

    Phase II - Learning The Tools

    Learning to be a good partner means learning new skills, tools, and techniques. These are the things that are never taught to us growing up. Learn how to share power, have intimate conversations, build trust and connection, and navigate the inevitable conflicts with compassion love.

  • Amazing relationships

    Phase III - Filling Love Buckets

    Loving someone means learning how they feel loved and doing more of that, it also helps to learn what takes away from that feeling of being loved and learning to do less of that too. You will learn how to express your love in a way that your partner feels it and learn how to discuss ways to get better at it.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

  • Most couples complete 8–12 weekly sessions, though some see powerful results in just 6—depending on your goals and availability. My goal is to teach you the skills you need so you don’t need me!

  • Yes—Zoom sessions are the only way I work with couples, and many couples use lunch breaks or evening calls.

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  • Relationship coaching focuses on present and future growth with practical tools and strategies, while couples therapy often explores past trauma and emotional wounds. Coaching is ideal for couples who want to improve communication, build connection, and grow together—without needing a mental health diagnosis.

  • If you're feeling distant, arguing more, or stuck in patterns you can't break, relationship coaching can help. It’s designed for couples who want to improve their relationship—not just fix what’s broken. Many couples in Santa Monica and beyond use coaching to strengthen their bond before it hits crisis.

  • Not at all. Coaching is perfect for dating, engaged, or long-term couples. Whether you're navigating a new relationship or trying to rekindle a long-standing one, couples coaching can help you connect more deeply.

  • Yes. I work with clients across the U.S. and worldwide via Zoom. If you’re outside of Santa Monica or prefer the convenience of virtual sessions, online coaching offers the same benefits as in-person support and is how I see all of my coaching clients.

  • Yes. If your partner isn’t ready to join, individual coaching can still help you understand your relationship dynamics, shift communication patterns, and create positive change on your own.

  • That’s common. Coaching can help you both explore what’s working, what’s not, and whether you're aligned on goals. Often there is one partner more attuned to the idea that the relationship needs help and reaching out, often it is a conversation about how best to invite your partner to join you on this journey.